A Little About My Orientation
I am a lesbian and always have been. When I met Isydia in high school, we immediately clicked. There was something different about him. At the time, Isydia told me he was feminine and not sexually interested in women or anyone-else for that matter. He just liked going out with women for fun because he connected with them better than with men.

As a lesbian still in the closet, I was used to guys hitting on me in clubs and at school, so I found it refreshing to be with someone who wasn't sexually interested in me. I had dated a few lesbian women before, but back then, it wasn't as easy to come out as it is now. Being with Isydia was a good way to hide my lesbian orientation and appear to like boys.

Isydia wanted to come out in high school and was far ahead of his time. However, that was too drastic for me. I told him to keep it quiet for now, and that we could revisit the subject of coming out in the future. We both agreed that we could see other people. We decided that only when one of us found a partner could Isydia come out of the closet and be feminine, but not before. This arrangement allowed us to continue going out and having fun together, and it was all because I didn't have the courage to come out as a lesbian back then.

We had a great time together. Isydia really knew how to enjoy life, and we did so many things. The vibe was so positive because neither of us was initially interested in the other sexually. It was untainted fun with no hidden motives.

As time passed, we became so comfortable with one another that a unique type of love started to develop. We grew closer in a very unique, non-sexual way.

When we decided to embark on our quest to live life to the fullest together, we stayed in the closet to avoid friction, primarily from our families and the job market, as society was not yet conditioned to accept LGBTQ+ people as normal. However, Isydia saw things differently than I did. I was more grounded in reality than he was.

At this stage in our lives, I've decided to drop the pretense of hiding such an important aspect of our lives. I especially wanted to do this for Isydia because I was living the lesbian life with him, but he was the one who had to do most of the pretending to satisfy my wish of staying in the closet. I felt I owed it to him to let him be who he always wanted to be since high school. In reality, Isydia isn't the one coming out of the closet; I am. My coming out as a lesbian has freed Isydia to truly be the person he always wanted to be.

I am and have always been a lesbian. I can be friends with anyone, but I am not romantically, intimately, or sexually attracted to men or anyone with a penis, regardless of how they identify.

My personality is dominant, and this is reflected in my being a Dominatrix/Mistress. Isydia is not a sissy and never wanted a Mistress. He is simply being the person he always wanted to be, free from society's ingrained beliefs. You can click on "WiiR1" in the menu to learn more about his transition from Isydia (he/him) to Sara (she/her)—a trans woman.

I am in a unique polyamorous relationship with three people. We do not have an open relationship and are not looking to add anyone new to our polycule. However, we are allowing our life partner, Sara (a trans woman), to date and connect with other people as she goes through her ongoing transition on hormones. Our polycule is also open to the idea of accepting a new member to join our polyamorous family should Sara choose.

To understand how I think and why I think the way I do, see the menu item on top “Gothic”, it’s my life philosophy!

Some facts about me—FAQ

*    I have never done any type of “recreational” drugs in my entire life!

*    I don’t drink alcohol, only socially on rare occasions. I drink wine once or twice a year.

*    I don't drive, never got my license. I get driven everywhere like the princess I am :)

*    Outside my Coven, I don’t meet people from the internet, never did and never will!

*    All my adult content is done with my poly-partners, that I have been with for decades, and still going strong.

*    I’m from Jewish descent but I don’t believe in religions. Therefore, I’m not associated with any man made religions. To learn about my life philosophy, see Gothic menu item on top.

*    I don’t like people with extreme views or opinions. I like open minded people who can choose a way of life yet allow others to choose theirs; basically people who don’t push their beliefs and ideology on others. I like people who are not judgmental, kind and have empathy.

*    I am a gamer chick. See my PodCast#14 (Menu item “PodCast” from the right)

*    I’m a biker chick. I ride behind my partner and love cross-country motorcycle travels, camping along the way, motels and on route biker bars.

*    I love the beach and BBQ’s

*    I love nature and animals

*    I support gun ownership for self defense to law abiding citizens. I believe no one should put their entire livelihood in an institution or government with the promise to protect them.

*    I believe in science, but not the so-called “experts” pitched by the media or the imposed coercion and blackmail that is forced on people by governments and corporate elites.

*    I don’t believe in the WEF, WHO or the UN and their likes. These entities are for the benefit of the corporate select-few and are against humanity, our planet and all its inhabitants.

*    I choose not to participate in politics because it’s a game that is rigged and you will never make a difference no matter what you say or do. Therefore, I choose not to participate in this useless rigged game.

*    I believe people with fixed views about life (religions tend to do that) are incapable of change or evolve Into something better.

 I will keep adding points here as I get asked by different users.

These phases of evolution throughout our years together, made us strong and we are always facing the obstacles and incentives as one WiiR1.

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